Nearly a year...

So it has almost been a year since me and my boyfriend starting dating.

For most people this would be a time to spoil them like crazy and go out and do something fancy. For me on the other hand, I am so happy and thankful to be with the man I'm with as he is very understanding but this is also a bad thing..

I love him so much and I want to do all these great and amazing things with him on our anniversary week I want to spoil him because he is so perfect to me. He doesn't pressure me with leaving the house and things like that because of my anxiety. This just makes me appreciate him so much more considering my past partners haven't been like that and have actually been so rude and mean about my anxiety. He really deserves a great week.. 

So how can I do something spectacular for him when I struggle to leave the house?...

There are a few places I am comfortable with being and even though they aren't the most romantic of places he will still appreciate the effort..

Anyhow the moral of this little tiny story is no matter what you do for someone big or small if they know your situation and know how doing little things like going for a meal is such a big deal to you then they will appreciate it because even if you just go for a walk around a lake or the canal or even the park then they know just how hard that could be for you and it will be special to them even if you have to stop every now and then just for a breather and to take it all in what you're actually doing.

There is nothing better than seeing the love and seeing how proud they are of you when you achieve something like that. 

No matter what the circumstances may be if you take your time doing things you will feel the benefits later on even if you just start small doing little things. If no one else tells you, I'd just like to say well done for everything you did today:)

-Char