Take the bad with the good.

So as I've previously said I'm having abit of a hard time right now. I'm currently still not motivated and I feel numb still.. BUT.. Things are starting to get a little better, I'm still really struggling but I don't feel awful all the time I'm trying my hardest to be positive in situations. As we all know being staying positive can be so hard when you feel like there is no positives in the situation but we have to try and be a little optimistic. 

I keep telling myself one thing that you might want to tell yourselves. Things are hard right now, But its okay. It could be worse and it could be better. You're absolutely fine. The odds are in your favour. Sometimes you might have a bad day but you'll have more good than bad. If you're having a really bad day then its because you're about to have an amazing day. You're stronger than anything that's hurting you. You're one of the strongest people to have to go through all this and you should be proud of yourself for not giving up. You may feel like crap right now but lets not think about that and instead lets think of all the beautiful things around you.

We are strong and we're amazing. That is why we have these bad bits, If we didn't have them we'd be able to conquer the world and other forces don't want that so they have to try and slow us down a little. 



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It's my BIRTHDAY next Monday :D 

It's going to be a day of cuddles with my mum and dancing. It's so lovely to be surrounded by people that mean the world to you on a special day like that and luckily for me I have my amazing mother who has booked it off work so I can have a happy day and be with her:) It's upsetting that I won't see my dad or other members of my family but why should I let that bother me? I'm happy with my mum and grandad and that's all that matters:) My grandad is a very lovely man who I know will always be there for me and  my mum is the strongest most amazing woman I know and I'm lucky to have both of these amazing people. Then in the evening I get to see some of my closest friends and have a hug and laugh and dance with them then I get to be back with my mum and watch movies. 

I hope you all have a lovely week and just remember, stay calm. If you feel uncomfortable take your mind somewhere else. Look around at all the beauty in the world. Don't focus on all the negatives. Try and find the beauty in everything.





If you feel like you're alone and need someone to talk to then please feel free to contact me! I'm always here for anyone.

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I pinky promise you all things will get better. It just takes time and we need to be patient. Including me:) Love you all!